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Bethenny Frankel Still Living With Jason Hoppy After Split!

Despite announcing their split on Dec. 23, the Skinnygirl mogul and her husband are still sharing an apartment together in New York City. "There are not plans yet for [Jason] to move out of their NYC loft," a source reveals in the Jan. 14 issue of Us Weekly.

Bethenny Frankel and Jason Hoppy may be headed in separate directions, but for now, the separated spouses will continue to live under the same roof.

"There are not plans yet for [Jason] to move out of their NYC loft," a source reveals in the Jan. 14 issue of Us Weekly, on stands Friday, In fact, Frankel's nationally syndicated, eponymous talk show will tape in the Big Apple this fall. "She fought to have it shoot in New York to make sharing custody easier," the source explains. (Frankel, 42, and Hoppy, 41, are parents to daughter Bryn, 2.) According to a source, Frankel is "devastated" by the breakup but remains optimistic about her future. "She is just taking it one day at a time." "We have love and respect for one another and will continue to amicably co-parent our daughter who is and will always remain our first priority," ther former Real Housewives of New York City star told Us in a statement. "This is an immensely painful and heartbreaking time for us."

Jason Hoppy Wears Wedding Ring Post Bethenny Frankel Split:

Four days after Bethenny Frankel announced that she and Hoppy are separating after two years, the newly single dad dined alone in NYC Thursday, Dec. 27. Looking somber, Hoppy, 41, sat inside a cafe sipping a hot beverage and talking on his cell phone. The NYC businessman and father of daughter Bryn, 2, was still wearing his wedding ring despite his recent split from Frankel, 42."We have love and respect for one another and will continue to amicably co-parent our daughter who is and will always remain our first priority," the reality star, talk show host and mogul said in a statement to Us Weekly Sunday. "This is an immensely painful and heartbreaking time for us."Frankel later tweeted, "I am heartbroken. I am sad. We will work through this as a family. "While Hoppy was dining at the cafe Thursday, his daughter was apparently spending time with her mother. Frankel tweeted that same day, "Bryn just got into my makeup and looks like she has war paint on.The former Real Housewives of New York star married Hoppy in March 2010, and the two welcomed their daughter in May that same year. Their marriage was documented on Frankel's Bravo spinoff, Bethenny Getting Married.

Well what can I say, I always was rooting for them to stay married eventhough I knew by their reality show that they werent goin to make it. But everybody knows that Bethenney is Cray (and if you had family issues like hers, you would be too) But thats why I love Bethenny  because shes: Real, Interesting, Hilarious, so not stuck-up, hustla, made sumthin outta nothing now shes a millionaire/mogul which is so awesome. And when it comes to the family life I so relate to Bethenney in so many ways: were both only children to both parents, both parents are crazy azz hell, and very evil parents that has jus thrown us to the world alone, and everything Bethenney mother does, mine does as well. The only diff is my father is still living, and as an only child that makes you not able to trust anyone no matter how good they are to you, and I can admit as an adult that Ive ran plenty of good men away, but im now learning to be vulnerable no matter if i get hurt or not. Because I rather go through life saying that Ive taking chances before living life safe every single minute, and a loud heart gets found while a quiet one doesnt. Plus if i can be hurt to the core by my own family & get back up and dust myself off, then i should be use to a broken heart and i guess it wont hurt as hard as it use to when i trusted peeps. Anywho, enough about me I think that Jason is an awesome man, father & husband (and if any part of this divorce is his fault lol, i truly believe that Jason never could come to grips with the fact that he went from; Man of the house the bread winner, to his wife being the breadwinner and paying for everything all within some months Beth became a millionaire mogul. And ONLY IF UR A REAL MAN U WILL UNDERSTAND THAT. A real man: pays the bills, takes the trash out, protects his family, makes the rules, work, hustle, puts it down mentally, physically & emotionally. All men have is PRIDE, and when they feel that is called into question thats when they start to feel insecure, YES WOMAN MEN GET INSECURE AS WELL. And thats when a good wife comes into play: letting their wonderful hubby know that their still the "boss" of the castle, but even then if they dnt feel that way then no matter what the hell you say will change the way he feels. So eventhough in their situation & Beth "bossy-azz" she started taking over all finances too abruptly, since she of course was makin the most money. But if she stepped back and would have jus share the bills or when its all comin from the same bank account, and you got a good-trustworthy man like Jason then its all the same money. But u shouldnt jus up and change things so quickly, cause everybody knows; the older a man the least he is subject to ANY CHANGE EVER. Men get to complacent, while woman (especially me) love to change things up & do diff things in life, spontaneous is my middle name. But jus saying wen u hav a REAL MAN & finances switch up, allow little change as possible. And if u have a "mooching, bum-azz, little boy" as yo man, then u can pay every bill cause his broke azz was mooching off of you be4 u became rich anyways, so u need to dump him like last year. But all jokes as side, Jason Hoppy is the epitome of a real Man & Husband and I love older successful men, Ill date Jason any day of the week. But in case I may not bump into him when I move to the big NYC, then I trully think that Bethenny & Jason should continue to do whats best for: their daughter Bryn and themselves. And lets pray that 2013 will put the love back into Bettheney's heart, because im quite sure if Beth told Jason to jump. He'll say how high? anyone can tell that Jason is incredibly in love still with his wife & family as a whole, JS!